Tag: Travel

The Things You Do on Vacation That You’d Never Do at Home: A Spanish Confession

The Things You Do on Vacation That You’d Never Do at Home: A Spanish Confession

There are things I do on vacation that I’d never—ever—do at home.

Like walking 30,000 steps a day without even realizing it. Or eating a double scoop of gelato twice a day for ten straight days. Or running through the streets of Madrid at sunrise, pretending I’m training for the Running of the Bulls—when in reality, I just needed to justify that fourth tapa.

Spain does something to a man.

It started in Mallorca—an island paradise where even the olives and goat cheese just taste different. I landed there with noble intentions: journal my thoughts like Hemingway, observe the culture like a wise old soul, eat modestly. By day two, I was fully converted to Spanish vacation mode: buying pastries like the new Publix just opened, napping like it was my birthright, and ordering churros with chocolate just to feel like I belonged.

From Mallorca, it was on to Seville, where the sun is hot (107 degrees hot), the flamenco is hotter, and I began living life by the empanada. In Seville, I discovered that eating tapas isn’t just about food—it’s a philosophy. A way of sampling life one delicious, questionably healthy bite at a time.

On a day trip to Córdoba, I strolled through the Mezquita in silence, pretending I was a thoughtful wanderer like old Papa Hemingway himself. What would Ernest have written about these mosaic arches and quiet courtyards? Probably something deep and tragic. I mostly just thought about lunch.

Then it was on to Granada—by train, of course. Because in Spain, trains aren’t just a mode of transportation; they’re a way of life. Smooth, punctual, and entirely unintelligible if you don’t speak the language. I spent much of my time staring at the departure board like it was the Rosetta Stone, my high school Spanish offering little consolation to my malfunctioning Google Translate app.

In Granada, the Alhambra ruins made me feel both very small and very blessed. The detail! The history! The surrounding view! The stairs! So many stairs.

By the time we arrived in Madrid, my legs were numb, my stomach perpetually full, and my heart wide open. Madrid is a city that moves—fast, loud, bold—but also knows how to slow down for a three-hour dinner and a midnight stroll. I woke early to run through the streets, dodging pigeons and pastelerías, attempting to sweat out last night’s chorizo.

And honestly? Running the streets is still the best way to get to know a city. In a strange land where I don’t speak the language and every corner holds something unexpected—a street musician, a café, a cathedral—I feel like I can run forever. Untethered. Without a care or thought for the burdens awaiting me back home.

And that’s the magic of it. The freedom. The permission to be someone different for a little while. Slowing down. Listening more. Laughing freely. Being present.

But the best part? The part that no amount of tapas, gelato, or flamenco shows could match?

I got to travel with my daughter. How many old geezers get to spend two whole weeks traipsing the Iberian Peninsula alone with their precious little girl?

Katie’s all grown now—wise, worldly, and entirely too fluent in the ways of train travel and Google Maps. She led the way through alleyways and marketplaces, museums and miradores. She handled the bookings, translated the menus, and reminded me gently (but persistently) to wear sunscreen.

But most importantly, she shared herself. We talked about life and faith and food. We watched sunsets and street performers and people from every corner of the globe. And in those quiet moments between destinations, I saw glimpses of who she’s become—and maybe, just maybe, she saw me as a dad she’ll still always look up to.

So yes, I do things on vacation I would never do at home.

And maybe that’s the point.

Because when you step out of your routine, off your turf, and into a world where you don’t know the language or the rules or what’s in your soup, you also step into possibility. Into wonder. Into grace.

And if you’re lucky—really lucky—you step into memories that will stay with you forever.

Dr. John Huang is a retired orthodontist, military veteran, and award-winning author. Currently serving as a columnist for Nolan Group Media, he invites readers to follow him on social media @KYHuangs. His newest book, Whining for Posterity, releases on July 1.

The Big Dog Defects: Loyalty Goes to the Dogs

The Big Dog Defects: Loyalty Goes to the Dogs

They say dogs are man’s best friend. They’re loyal to a fault and faithful to the end. But what happens when the Big Dog himself starts sniffing around another yard and decides the grass really is greener over in the Commonwealth’s least fashionable zip code?

Yes, Vince Marrow—Kentucky’s own gravelly voiced, Fritos munching recruiting wizard, tight ends coach extraordinaire, sideline spiritual advisor, and Mark Stoops’ trusty right-hand man—has defected to the enemy. And not just any enemy, mind you, but to Louisville. As in “Loo-a-vul.” As in red. As in the sworn arch-nemesis of all things blue and righteous. When I first heard the news, I didn’t know whether to weep, rage, or give Vince the one-finger salute on the way out.

For a dozen years, Big Dog barked loud and proud in Lexington. He wagged his tail at five-stars, howled with joy after bowl wins, and lifted the recruiting ceiling on a program that used to feast solely on moral victories and the occasional MAC pretender. Alongside Stoops, he turned UK Football into a respectable—and sometimes even feared—SEC contender. And now? Now he’s swapping out his blue windbreaker for a pair of Cardinal-red socks? Say it ain’t so, Vince.

To most of BBN, this is more than just a coaching move. This is betrayal at a Shakespearean level. This is Brutus plunging the knife into Caesar’s back or Larry Bird donning purple and gold.

Now before you tell me this is “just business,” spare me. That’s what everyone says nowadays. “It’s a business decision,” they mutter, as they pull up roots, ghost their friends, break their commitments, and leave their spouses for yoga instructors named Skyler. Somewhere along the way, loyalty became a punchline—something to scoff at, like Blockbuster Video or landline phones.

Marrow leaving Kentucky isn’t just a loss for Stoops. It’s a snapshot of society’s frayed relational fabric. Once upon a time, people stayed in one place, built deep roots, and grew old beside their neighbors and colleagues. These days, folks are constantly chasing “what’s next.” A few more dollars. A better title. More retweets. Less accountability. Like mice on a merry-go-round, we leap from opportunity to opportunity, always certain the next nut will be bigger and shinier.

Remember when a man’s word was his bond? When you could shake hands on something and actually mean it? I imagine Stoops and Marrow once made pacts in the bowels of Commonwealth Stadium. Pacts sealed not in ink, but in late-night film sessions and on recruiting trips to the barren fields of Ohio. You don’t just walk away from that history without leaving some blood on the blackboard.

Of course, I get it. Coaches leave. Programs evolve. People need to feed their families. Vince is free to make his own choices, just like I was free to leave my orthodontic practice to write books that don’t sell. Only Vince and Stoops really know what went on behind the scenes.

But can’t we still mourn the loss of something deeper? The erosion of loyalty. The death of staying power. The idea that you stick with your people—even when the wins are sparse and the haters are loud.

What hurts most is that we thought Vince was different. He wasn’t just a coach—he was our coach. He loved Big Blue Nation. He talked about “La Familia.” He posed with babies in Kroger parking lots. He always hinted that he’d “never wear red.” But you know how that goes—just ask Judas. Or LeBron. Or that youth pastor who used to lead worship and now sells crystals in Sedona.

And of all places… Louisville? That’s like Batman leaving Gotham to join the Joker’s henchmen. It’s like Colonel Sanders opening a Raising Cane’s. I fully expect Vince to start flashing the “L’s Up” and waxing poetic about the urban charm of the Gene Snyder Freeway.

So, what do we long-suffering UK football fans do now?

Well, we grieve. We rage. We write impassioned blog posts with overwrought metaphors. We take a HUGE breath…and then we go back to rooting for the name on the front of the jersey. Because at the end of the day, loyalty may be dying—but we don’t have to be part of the kill squad.

Let’s be loyal to our teams. To our friends. To our families. To our churches, our communities, and yes—even to the coaches who leave us for a shinier gig across enemy lines.

Maybe—just maybe—if we all doubled down on loyalty in our own little spheres, then someday, someone like Vince Marrow might actually stay.

But until then, let me make one thing perfectly clear: I will never, ever cheer for Louisville. Not for a player. Not for a coach. Not for a charity dunk contest versus Duke. Not even if Vince himself buys 500 copies of my newest book, Whining for Posterity, and hands them out at a Cardinal tailgate.

Because some of us still believe in loyalty. Even when the Big Dog runs away.

Dr. John Huang is a retired orthodontist, military veteran, and award-winning author. Currently serving as a columnist for Nolan Group Media, he invites readers to follow him on social media @KYHuangs. Explore his debut novel— “Name, Image, and Murder”—and all his books at https://www.Amazon.com/stores/Dr.-John-Huang/author/B092RKJBRD